Communication is more than words

Discussions carry more information than words. Facial expressions, tone of voice, mannerisms and gestures are part of the conversation. All those things convey information and meaning. Stripping them away changes things.

That’s precisely the point of this great letter written by Mark Twain back in 1888, in which he disallows future pulitzer prize winning writer Edward Bok from publishing their interview.

“Spoken speech is one thing, written speech is quite another. Print is the proper vehicle for the latter, but it isn’t for the former. The moment ‘talk’ is put into print you recognize that it is not what it was when you heard it; you perceive that an immense something has disappeared from it. That is its soul.”

Twain goes on to explain, as only he can, the tremendous challenge of capturing spoken words accurately. It’s a great reminder that the medium matters. Translating the written word to a speech and the spoken word to text must be done with care and consideration. Communication is more than words.

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Presidential speech

A speech really can make a difference. And it can last beyond the place and time of delivery.

Most don’t. No matter the speaker, the occasion, or the audience.

But at certain crucial moments of history, many of our presidents have indeed risen to the occasion.

Take, for instance, Abraham Lincoln’s Gettysburg Address. While the context of the US Civil War certainly gave weight to whatever he might say, the address was unique – yet long-lasting – in several ways.

In just ten sentences Lincoln put the ceremony and the Civil War itself in context, tying the event to a rich history and an important future for the United States. He also tied the event that everyone had gathered for (the Consecration of the National Cemetery at Gettysburg) to its larger meaning in a larger context. Ironically, he states that “The world will little note, nor long remember what we say here,” yet it is one of the most well-known speeches in United States history.

An economy of words, a proper and profound context, a short and humble delivery. Lessons we should all embrace for our own speeches.

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How to write a great email message – Clarity, Brevity, Format

Write to be read. Write to be understood. Write to compel action.

Here are some quick guidelines on what makes a great message, and some questions you should ask yourself about each message you send to any size audience.

Clarity

A great email message gets the point across. And to do that, you need to consider the audience. Put yourself in their shoes.

Are you using terms they understand?

Jargon kills any good message. Speak plainly.

Are you telling them something that’s interesting to them?

Know why they care about your message and incorporate that into your writing. Don’t assume they’ll interpret your message the way you intend. Be direct.

Are you asking the reader to do something?

Make that clear, and separate that call to action from the rest of your message. Don’t be shy, and don’t bury the request in a paragraph (or if you do – repeat it as a separate item at the end).

Brevity

Less is more in so many areas, and email is certainly one of them.

We’re all inundated with emails these days, and yours is likely no more welcome than any others. People appreciate brevity. And when you set that tone over the course of all your email communications, your messages will start to become more welcome than others.

Are you getting to the point?

This is a big one (probably the biggest). You need to be concise.

Get to the point quickly. Re-read your message multiple times before you send it out – and each time cut it down.

Find ways to say the same things with less words. There’s always a way to trim things down, and your readers will appreciate it.

Format

Don’t overlook this one – the way you format your message can really help serve the other objectives of clarity and brevity.

Are you writing short paragraphs?

Make only one point in each paragraph. The white space between paragraphs makes your message look less intimidating and more readable.

Are you breaking out ideas separately?

If you’ve got to convey several ideas in a single email message, use subtitles. Simply type a short phrase and bold it, as in a blog post.

Separating the ideas this way makes the message more readable and easier to skim, which is important particularly if people will need to go back and reference your message later on.

Bonus Tip!

Re-read your message several times before you send it out. Review for each of the points above, and also for the overall impression of the message. Is your point clear? Is the message as concise as possible? Is the format friendly; does the message look “readable?”

If you can, have someone else read it too and ask for honest feedback.

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Prepare to meet

If you just show up at the meeting, your behavior will be shaped by the group. You may not speak up so quickly, or at all. You’ll tend to agree with opinions expressed by others first, or at least be influenced by them. Your thoughts and opinions, questions and insights can get influenced, watered down, or ignored (by you).

Better to prepare, even if just for a few minutes. Think about the topic or project to be discussed. Jot down some points you’d like to discuss and questions you have. Ponder them alone for a bit before heading off to the group meeting.

Teamwork and collaboration are great, but there’s no substitute for individual thought. Meetings can be productive, but they can be dangerous too. If everyone takes the easy way out and just goes with the flow of the group, the group is going to head in the wrong direction, toward the path of least resistance. Without looking at alternative viewpoints, contentious issues, and the heart of the matter with enough scrutiny.

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Get the conversation started

Pre-packaged

Communication is critical for just about every project. This is why we spend lots of time crafting messages. We need to figure out the best way to tell everybody what we know about the endeavor – the goals, the plans, the schedule. We need to shape the message for different audiences, anticipating their concerns and garnering their enthusiasm.

We use lots of formats like email, reports, presentations, and maybe even video to package these communications. It’s important to get the word out in a variety of ways so that it’s interesting and digestible for everyone. We need to deliver a good product in order to get the information across.

Un-packed

The trouble with all these neatly packed ideas is that the recipients need to un-pack those messages. They need to pick them apart, examine the components, and discover the meaning each has to them personally. To really understand the message and prepare to take action, they’ll need to explore the issues – asking questions, discussing with colleagues. This is a decidedly messy process. And that’s ok.

In fact, you should probably embrace it. And maybe even accelerate it.

Getting the conversation started is probably more important than packaging all one-way messages up neatly. The conversation is where everybody is actively engaged in the process of internalizing how the project is going to work, how it will impact them, and what they’ll need to do to help get it done.

Getting the conversation started earlier in the process is a little bit risky. You need to be ok with not having all the answers, with not presenting a fully polished product, with uncovering issues you haven’t anticipated. But, that’s exactly why it’s a good idea to do this. You’ll now have lots of input to shape the final aspects of the project. And you’ll gain buy-in in the process.

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Being specific

To get your point across, it’s often necessary to speak in broad terms. This is how you explain a concept or a big idea that will have a significant impact.

But a lot is left to the imagination.

People may not really understand your idea. In fact, they may get entirely the wrong idea by filling in the details on their own in order to translate what you are saying into what it means to them.

Concrete examples

The best way to make sure you’re on the same page is through examples. Providing specific stories of how the big idea will work when it is implemented helps people understand your idea much more clearly. It helps them to translate the big idea into specific, concrete terms that matter to them. And this can generate questions, concerns, and ideas at a very specific level, which can help you to understand the big idea and its impact more clearly.

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People want to know why

Getting a group behind your objective requires some patience and effort. Simply giving a directive won’t work in most circumstances, because they’ll want to understand the context. The rationale behind our efforts is ever more important to us these days. People want to know why they are being asked to do something.

This is a good thing.

You tell them why, they’ll tell you how

If you can articulate why the team needs to move in a certain direction – why a change is needed, and why this course of action is best – then they can tell you the best way to proceed. They can tell you the “how.”

And this is a good thing too.

A lot of time leaders feel like the “why” is obvious or already understood. But it’s not. People need to be brought up to speed. They need to be able to ask questions, contemplate, and maybe even challenge the “why” a bit before they can fully absorb it (and buy into it).

And a lot of times leaders feel like they need to tell the team exactly how to do things in order to meet the objective. But they don’t. People on the front lines often know better. And if you’ve got buy-in on the “why” they can best tell you “how” things should proceed. This also gives them some ownership over the idea and the plan – the opportunity to shape it and make it their own.

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A Fresh Perspective

Sometimes it helps to have someone new examine your situation. Someone who is not familiar with the context. Someone who doesn’t know the jargon or any of the “inside baseball” details and nuances.

First, you’ll need to bring them up to speed, which means you’ll need to translate a lot into simple, clear statements. That exercise alone can be very refreshing. It forces you to step back look at your situation from a broader perspective.

Then, you’ll hear questions and ideas that will help you to think about a lot of things differently. Some suggestions may not help at all, but many will. And the smallest, simplest one may actually have the biggest impact.

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Leave room for interpretation

If you’re trying to convey an idea, or an approach, or some wisdom to a group – leave some things out. In fact, you can probably tell us more by leaving a lot of things out.

We don’t need to know all the details. We know that your problem was nuanced and complex. We know the solution wasn’t easy. We know it required attention to many detail and the work of many  over a long period of time.

We want the gist of it. The lesson. The learning. And we want to hear it in a way that’s abstracted a bit.

It’s helpful to know that this advice you’re going to give us is based on concrete, real-world experience gained the hard way. But we need to know the lessons in such a way that we can interpret it for our own situation, which is likely quite different than yours.

The story is interesting, but we really want the lesson. Without all the details that can distract from it.

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Good design is about taking away, not adding

Consider this video from John McWade, Creative Director of Before & After Magazine, a great resource for graphic designers. No, I’m not a graphic designer and you may not be either. But, in many ways we all need to learn how to improve our ability to design things that are visually appealing.

So, while this video showcases critical design concepts using a magazine cover as an example, the techniques could be used for your next PowerPoint presentation, full color proposal, or PTO flyer. Good design matters for all of these things. The good news for most of us, I think, is that learning to do less is the key.

Resist that urge to use multiple fonts, crazy colors, and random clipart in your next project. Spend four minutes watching John in this video and you’ll see why.

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